ABOUT ME

Sex is my ultimate passion

I have always been fascinated by human relationships, power dynamics and the darker, shadowy side of our lives.

My deepest intention is to facilitate learning, exploration, growth and healing. If you want to work with me, you must be prepared to dive deep into your innermost desires, fears, expectations and the roles you knowingly, and unknowingly, play. 

I believe above all else in the power of transformation, and hope that you can find me a trusted companion in your own personal journey. I describe my role as a guide, container and creator of safe space.

Endlessly curious and forever learning; I do not believe myself to be all-knowing or superior to others and respect that my clients are their own people, with their own stories. In my work, I provide the resources, time, space and education that many feel they have been lacking their whole adult lives. I am not here to "fix" anyone, I am here to empower, to connect and to hold.

My role as a Pleasure Priestess is woven from many threads: I am a certified Sex & Relationships Educator, a Tantra Practitioner, a Somatic Sexologist and a Conscious Kink Facilitator.

This breadth of knowledge allows me to combine many skills to suit the needs and desires present in any moment. I take my work seriously, and believe this is my ultimate calling in this lifetime. So, you’ll see me regularly attending professional training, learning from internationally-renowned teachers and ensuring my work is compliant and ethical. I am fully insured and a member of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists.

I have a background in teaching, a first-class honours degree in Childhood & Youth, A-levels in psychology, philosophy & ethics, history and a whole host of other qualifications and educational experiences that set me up well to enter this profession.


My passions have driven me to learn as much as I can about how we grow, learn and adapt as humans; how our trauma affects us; how our bodies, minds and social relationships function in a delicate balance to keep us safe. And…perhaps most importantly…it taught me how we learn.

Play is the space where we learn the most, with the least amount of effort. When we are exploring, enjoying and connection, our bodies and minds process in a unique way. I believe sex is the play of the adult. Our sexual power is our creative power! Healing your sex life heals your entire life, not just what goes on in the bedroom.

By shining a light on your unconscious shadows, filling in the gaps left by lack-luster (or non-existent) sex education and healing the shame so many of us carry, I hope to empower you to a live happier, more creative and more passionate life.

Blending Modern Science with Ancient wisdom

I find deep fulfillment in facilitating a careful alchemy of the most current research and theory with the ancient wisdom of many cultures across the globe. This field is, in many ways, still in it's infancy. There is so much we don't yet understand, and so much knowledge that has been purposefully stolen, buried, dismissed and eradicated. Not everything can be proven in a lab, and not every myth should be accepted as fact. With deliberate judgement and mindful intuition, I present the information I feel most benefits you and the collective you are part of.

With thousands of hours of relevant study, I combine knowledge from many fields in my practice. Such as…

Consent, boundaries, negotiation & communication, human relationships, the connection with the self, shadow work, mindfulness, pleasure & arousal, conscious kink, BDSM, erotic ritual, anatomy, menstrual cycles, neo-tantra, sacred sexuality, shame, working with archetypes, psychology, childhood development, socio-cultural narratives, philosophy & ethics, anatomy, abuse, trauma, sexual violence, and more!

My training

“Sex Nerd” is probably the most accurate label for me! I never stop learning. Some of my professional developments include:

- Sex & Relationships Education - An in-dept professional accredited level 4 training delivered by the Esteem Network from ACET UK. Covering all manner of Sex & Relationships topics, from consent to contraception.

- Transformational Tantric Massage - A year-long professional certification in tantric massage, sexual healing and bioenergetics with Sacred Light Tantra

- Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive - A week-long deep dive workshop for Conscious Kink, Sacred Sexuality and Erotic Ritual with Seani Love

-Lunar Womb: Exploring the Feminine - A 4-month regular circle on sacred Yoni practices, menstrual cycles and womb healing with Nicola Walsh

My other adventures in learning & growth…

Sacred Ceremonial Cacao

Counselling Skills (Level 2)

First Aid Mental Health

Crystal Healing

Reiki (1&2)

Aromatherapy

Anatomy & Physiology

Kink Skills:

Sadomasochism, impact play, bondage, sensory play, wax play, temperature play, psychological play, primal play, pet play, worship, and more!

I’d love to help you on your path. See how you can work with me to play in the shadows, uncover your desires and relate to yourself and others in a beautiful, healing way.

MY METHOD

  • Hands-on

    I believe active learning is at the core of personal growth. With me, you will get the chance to feel, touch, experiment and try things out yourself & with other willing participants. Together, we will create a safe container where you can dance in the shadows, knowing you can land safely, and call in help if you need it.

    I want you to walk away from every session empowered, with confidence, and ready to integrate all you’ve discovered.

  • At your pace

    We will walk along your path together, at whatever pace you need. Everything is an invitation, you will never be coerced or forced into anything. With my help, we can safely uncover what is blocking you, where your unconscious wants help, where fundamental gaps in your knowledge affect you, and where fear, shame or lack is holding you back.

  • Loving

    Love is at the heart of all I do. My top priority is for you to feel safe, held and important. All of you is welcome, exactly as you are. Our work will be challenging, so you need to know you have the loving boundaries that grant you the freedom to explore.

    Relationships and sex are two of the most vulnerable parts of being human. I will always honor that vulnerability and thank you for showing up as your authentic self.

What is a pleasure priestess?

Watch the video from my talk at Creative Mornings to find out more about my work! I discuss everything from the work I do, to the values that underpin it, to the journey that brought me here.

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